Don’t message him, you will look desperate.
Don’t call her, she will think that you are all into her.
Don’t call him, men don’t like easy targets.
Chase her, girls like the attention.
Bla bla Bla bla bla.
I really want to know who made these rules. Why on earth have we made the ‘full of happiness’ concept of dating so complicated with so many rules? They are there in the start and they are there in the end. These rules leave only when the love or the liking leaves.
Why can’t it all be simple? You meet someone, call them when you miss them, text them if you think of them, ask them to meet if you feel like spending time with them. Why do we have to constantly complicate things for ourselves with so much of plotting and planning?
Also by ‘acting aloof’ don’t we create a pretentious world? When you try to act differently then you are going against your very nature. You are being false to yourself and hence to the other person as well.
What I feel is that one should be what they are and listen to their heart. If you like someone then your heart changes its rhythm right? That’s the signal that your heart gives you. It begs you to listen to it. But of course listening to the brain sounds more practical.
Those who can’t accept you for what you are and how you behave don’t deserve to be with you. Signing off with the hope that the world will soon become less of a complicated bitch.